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  2. Birth Is Suffering
     … The purpose of this is to pull you out of the different sides of conflicts in a way that’s not escapist, in a way that actually is good for the people involved in the conflict. If you can help get them out, too, then you’re happy to do it. Then finally, resolve on harmlessness, which the Buddha basically says is equivalent to … 
  3. Holding On to the Path
     … And there’s a way in which you could say that there are things you have to be attached to, things you have to desire. Desire does play a role in the path. It’s a part of right effort. You have to want to let go of unskillful qualities and you have to want to develop skillful ones. It’s written in the … 
  4. Calm in the Storm
     … down through the head, down through the neck, the torso, and right in the middle of the body. As you breathe in, the breath goes into that line from all directions, and as you breathe out, it goes out from that line in all directions. So see what way of conceiving or perceiving the breath energy is helpful for you right now. The breath … 
  5. Guardian Meditations
     … You have to think your way to stillness, think your way to a place in the mind where the mind is willing to stop its thinking and settle down. There are lots of different lists of topics in the commentaries—40 different meditation topics in all. And there’s a standard list that’s very popular in Thailand. It’s called the guardian meditations … 
  6. Significance
     … You show some responsibility when you do, when you’ve acted in a way that doesn’t harm anyone. That’s really significant. That’s something we should learn how to appreciate more and more. There is room for individual expression. You look at the different perfections, and generosity in particular: There are lots of different ways you can be generous. The Buddha placed … 
  7. Book search result icon Ten Perfections II. Truth
     … the first one doesn’t see, the middle one doesn’t see, the last one doesn’t see. In the same way, the statement of the brahmans turns out to be a row of blind men, as it were: the first one doesn’t see, the middle one doesn’t see, the last one doesn’t see. So what do you think, Bhāradvāja: this … 
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  8. Things Aren’t as They Should Be
     … Let those with ears show forth their conviction.” When he went to teach the five brethren, even before he said anything about the middle way or the four noble truths, he said, “The deathless has been attained, and if you follow what I teach you, you can attain it, too.” When Sariputta heard a very short synopsis of the Buddha’s teachings and gained … 
  9. Conviction in Charge
     … He finally comes to a big bull elephant in the middle of a clearing. When he actually sees the elephant, that’s when he knows he’s got the elephant.” The same way, the Buddha said, there are footprints and scratch marks all along the path. There’s a sense of well-being that comes when you get the mind in a strong state … 
  10. All-around Eye
     … Don’t try to boil things down to one idea and then just run with that all the way—because you may run off the side of the road. Remember, this is a middle way; it’s balanced. And finding balance is one of the most difficult things to do. It requires the most discernment. If this were simply a practice of running off … 
  11. A Frame of Reference
     … The more sensitive you are to the breath, the more you stay with the breath all the way in, all the way out, trying to make it comfortable, all the way in, all the way out, then the better the meditation will go. If any part of the breath starts getting too long, just allow it then to turn around. If it’s been … 
  12. On Deserving to Be Happy
     … You don’t know when you’re going to get there, but you know that you have to follow this path very carefully, because it is a middle way. If it were a path of extremes, it would be easy. Just go for extreme effort. Pull out all the stops. Those who are the strongest would win. But it’s not that way. As … 
  13. A Noble Path
     … As the Buddha says, it’s good in the beginning, good in the middle, good in the end. As with any path, there are going to be difficulties along the way. He never promised that it would be easy. But it’s always good. That’s why it’s worth sticking with it. As he said, even if tears are running down your cheeks … 
  14. A Larger Perspective
     … You can interpret that statement in lots of ways. What it comes down to is that we have a lot of similarities in terms of the big issues. But in terms of how the particulars of those big issues get worked out, we have our individual issues, which is why the Buddha had to have so many different ways of teaching the path. There … 
  15. On Not Twisting the Cow’s Horn
     … There’s a right way and there’s a wrong way. The right way is to pull on the udder. The wrong way is to twist the horn. Now, suppose you’ve been twisting the horn for a long time and somebody says, “Hey, twisting the horn doesn’t get any results.” So you stop twisting the horn and say, “Well, this is pretty … 
  16. Book search result icon Mindful of the Body III. The Advantages of Mindfulness Immersed in the Body
     … Whenever the Tathāgata merges his body with his mind and his mind with his body, and remains having alighted on the perception of ease and buoyancy with regard to the body, then his body becomes lighter, more pliant, more malleable, & more radiant. “Just as when an iron ball heated all day becomes lighter, more pliant, more malleable, & more radiant; in the same way, whenever … 
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  17. Respect, Confidence, & Patience
     … Step back a bit, learn to laugh at yourself in a good-humored way—not in a sarcastic way, but a good- humored way, a sympathetic way—and then get on with the practice. You’ll find then that things go a lot better. So all of this comes under the issue of right attitude. It’s not listed as one of the factors … 
  18. Inner Negotiating Skills
     … It’s useful, when you see your defilements, to be able to laugh at them—not in a nasty way, but just in a good-humored, “This is the way human nature is” kind of way. It’s always good to have that attitude at the back of your mind. When you’re confident that this battle can be won, then you can approach … 
  19. Page search result icon Thoughts About Thinking
     … Any issues you may have had with people during the day, get them out of the way, because you’re trying to give the mind a place it can settle down in, right here, right now. And you don’t want those attitudes to be getting in the way. If you’re worried about issues in the future, remind yourself: The best way to … 
  20. The Path to Stream Entry
     … It’s the pilings in the middle of the river, where the current is strongest, that are really hard to get in place. In the same way, the principles of the precepts or virtue are not that hard. The principles of discernment are not that hard, either. It’s the concentration that requires a lot of work. In other words, the factors of right … 
  21. Tranquility & Insight in Tandem
     … That way, you can watch what’s going on and watch it in a way that gives rise to a sense of well-being. This part of the path is really important, because if you don’t have that sense of pleasure, that sense of refreshment as you meditate, it’s very easy to wander off. At the same time, you’re not getting … 
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