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  2. The Skill of Happiness
     … Because the mind is like a committee. There are lots of views, lots of opinions, lots of strategies we’ve used in the past for finding happiness. When they see that the field is open, there’s no other activity going on right now, they’ll come to the fore and pull your thoughts off in different directions. Either that or the committee members … 
  3. Obsessive Thinking
     … That’s what you’ve got to look into.” This is where it’s good to think of the mind as a committee. There are some committee members who like this. It’s only when you ferret out those members that you can do something about them. Then, the fourth step is to really look carefully at the drawbacks of that kind of thinking … 
  4. Murderers, Vipers, & Floods, Oh My! | Meditations7
     … Don’t think that as soon as you propose the idea to the committee of the mind, “Hey, let’s meditate!” everybody in the committee will chime in and say, “Yes, that sounds great.” We’ve all had opposition in our internal committees. The important thing is to realize that you don’t have to identify with the opposition. It’s normal, it’s … 
  5. Defilements
     … all the different committee members. This is where it’s good to have some practice with the phrases for goodwill, compassion, empathetic joy, and equanimity, because if you then suddenly find yourself talking to yourself about somebody else in an envious or a spiteful way, you’ll notice that it doesn’t really go together with “May all beings be happy. May all beings … 
  6. Determination
     … If you think of the mind as a committee, when you make a determination like that, you’re basically putting out a warning to any members of the committee that might want to be traitorous that they would be recognized as traitors and shot. That gives the mind a strong impetus to carrying through. When the Buddha talked about determination, there were four qualities … 
  7. Responsible Happiness
     … The mind is like a committee, as I’ve said many times. We have all kinds of members in there. The members you’re proud of. The members you’re ashamed of. The members that are thoughtful. The members that are thoughtless. You might think of them as all the different desires you’ve had in the past, and they’ve gotten lodged in … 
  8. Book search result icon Meditation in Daily Life | With Each & Every Breath
     … You gain a place where you can step back from your thoughts and watch them simply as members of the committee. You don’t have to take up everything the committee proposes. If something unskillful is brought to the floor, you learn to recognize it as unskillful and breathe right through it. As you strengthen your ability to keep your center spot relaxed and … 
  9. Perceptions of the Breath | Gather ’Round the Breath
     … As we mentioned earlier today, the mind is very much like a committee. Some perceptions will attract some members of the committee and other perceptions will attract others. You want to find a perception that gathers in the calm, solid, alert factions of the mind, the factions that really do want to put an end to suffering and are willing to do what’s … 
  10. Study & Practice
     … If you think of the mind as a committee, mind-states are like the whole committee agreeing on something. Mental qualities are the different members, which sometimes are with you and sometimes are against you if you want to meditate. Again, you look at these things in and of themselves, as events happening: That’s your frame of reference. The “in and of themselves … 
  11. Developing Mental Seclusion
     … to give you that better place to stay, so that the mind can be protected from all of its other conversations and companions and committee members that would pull you off in other directions. We need this ability to make these distinctions to decide, “Yes, I’ll go with this,” or “No, I won’t go with that.” Because there are lots of times … 
  12. For What It’s Worth
     … Think of the mind as a committee. Some of the committee members have decided they want to slip away as soon as your mindfulness lapses. They’re all ready to go. There’s a lapse, and they’re gone. You want to see that point where they made up their decision to be ready to go. Scientists have done psychological experiments where they can … 
  13. Concentration as Wilderness
     … You find that if you settle down with the breath, large parts of the committee of the mind are not really here yet. They’re still carrying on their conversations about home or work or whatever, assuming that you will give in after a while and forget about the breath. And you will – to begin with. But then you remember that you’re not … 
  14. Impossible Things | Meditations1
     … The committee is unanimous. The difficult actions are the ones you like to do but give bad results and the ones you don’t like to do but give good results. The Buddha had an interesting comment on these two. He said they’re a measure of a person’s wisdom and discernment. He didn’t say they’re a measure of your willpower … 
  15. Take the Buddha Seriously
     … That’s why we use the image of the committee. As the different committee members get up to have their say, you find yourself playing the role of that member. This is what becoming is all about: You take on an identity. But you can take on many different identities in very quick succession, so you have to figure out which identity in the … 
  16. Things that Arise & Pass Away
     … This is where that image of the mind of as a committee is really useful. We all tend to identify with every voice in the committee. But if you can step back and listen to the different voices, you realize, “Okay, that voice that’s speaking there: I can pretty much figure out who I picked up that idea or that attitude from. I … 
  17. Discernment & Determination
     … So you have to be very careful about who gets admitted into the committee inside and who has a voice in the committee. These are all different factors of discernment that can help you with the remaining factors—like truth. Truth means you make up your mind to do something and you really do it. This is one of the qualities of the great … 
  18. Goodness Comes from Heedfulness
     … It’s as if you’ve got to committee in there—or it’s more like the Chicago City Council. Some of the people will go along for a little while and then do what they can to subvert your decisions. So you’ve got to watch out for this. And be watchful. The Pali word for this is appamada, heedfulness, realizing that there … 
  19. The Kamma of Self & Not-Self
     … So what are some skillful uses of self? A while back there was a book, called The Wisdom of the Ego, in which a psychologist talked about healthy ego functions—the ego being the part of your self-committee in the mind that negotiates among your desires, and between your sense of what you should do and what you want to do. And although … 
  20. If at First You Don’t Succeed
     … He’s already scouted out the territory and said, “This is the best thing you can aim at.” It’s up to you to decide, in your committee of the mind, whether the members all on board with going to this goal. Some of them will be, but a lot of them won’t. They have other agendas. So that’s the next aspect … 
  21. How to Save the World
     … As we were saying this morning, it’s as if there’s a committee in there and they have all kinds of agendas. But if you approach the committee as a person centered, well-nourished, energized through the meditation, it’s a lot easier to sort through the issues to see which voices you want to identify with or at least take up with … 
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