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  2. Quick on the Draw
     … More and more of the voices in your committee are suddenly echoing what it has to say. Like that old principle of the Big Lie. If it keeps getting repeated over and over and over again enough times, it seems to be the truth because that’s what everybody is saying. So you have to be careful. You have to be quick. As soon … 
  3. Friends Inside & Out
     … As for other voices that come up, the other members of the committee, friends, true friends and false friends: You want to sort through them. This practice of recognizing who’s a true friend and who’s not, both internally and externally, covers a lot of the practice right there. We use the principle of appropriate attention to sort these things out. Which friends … 
  4. Strong Through Commitment
     … This is the problem with dealing with the committee of the mind. If you ask, “Which one in there is you?” they say, “All of us are you. All of us are me.” It’s like that story that Ajaan Lee tells about Ven. Cūla Panthaka. He was a monk who was not all that bright. But, one day, when he was embarrassed by … 
  5. Protection Through Mindfulness Practice | Meditations8 : Dhamma Talks
     … And how does that work its way through your inner bureaucracy?—influencing this person, that person inside, all those committee members working together, creating little sensations here and there, and all of a sudden you’ve got a full blown case. If you want to believe their propaganda when that happens, you’re throwing away your protection. Your protection is to remind yourself, “This … 
  6. Book search result icon A Warrior’s Stronghold | Meditations4
     … Keep thinking of the mind as a committee. There are lots of people in there, lots of ideas, some of which are helpful, some of which are actually destructive to your own wellbeing. You can’t regard the destructive ones as your own true emotions or your own true ideas. They may be real, but they’re not the “true you.” Ajaan Lee has … 
  7. The Duties of Happiness
     … So when you’ve got the safe space, you can get the whole committee to sit down around the topic of what kind of happiness is genuine. That’s when you can compare the allure of, say, the guilt or the remorse, with the drawbacks that you’ve seen: that at the very least, you weigh yourself down. It’s one thing to recognize … 
  8. Doing the Right Thing
     … one, not seeing clearly; two, not having the strength even when you do see clearly; and sometimes, you can see clearly and have the strength, but you don’t have the wisdom to deal with the unskillful members of your mind’s committee. Boil it down to those three issues, and the training that the Buddha gives in virtue, concentration, and discernment helps right … 
  9. Stop Squirming | Meditations7
     … That pulls you out of all the arguments of all the different committee members in the mind. When there’s physical pain in one part of the body, you can focus on the breath energy in another part of the body. This is how we build our powers of endurance: by giving ourselves a place of well-being, even in the midst of a … 
  10. Book search result icon Finding a Teacher | With Each & Every Breath
     … When you listen to a teacher, you’re adding that teacher’s voice to the committee of your mind, passing judgments on your actions, so you want to make sure that that voice will be a positive addition. As the Buddha pointed out, if you can’t find a trustworthy teacher, you’re better off practicing on your own. An unqualified teacher can do … 
  11. A Refuge from Death
     … Think of it as being one voice in the committee of your mind, and let it be in the back corner. Don’t put it on front stage. In other words, you know it’s there, it’s chattering away, but you just decide you’re not going to focus on it. If that doesn’t work, notice how, when you’re thinking, there … 
  12. Looking at Your Life
     … Think of them as different proposals that are being offered by your inner committee, and you don’t necessarily have to take up the proposals. The thoughts can just go through. They arise and pass away, and because you have a foundation in the body, you can look at the mind and be in a better position to gauge the thoughts: what things are … 
  13. Book search result icon A Dependable Mind | Meditations1
     … It’s as if you have a whole committee offering their suggestions and opinions. So this is a very good way of getting to know the mind because a lot of things buried in the mind will tend to surface and focus on what’s happening when there’s pain. Instead of trying to run away from the pain, you just sit with it … 
  14. How to Be Happy
     … We were talking earlier this afternoon about the committee of the mind, the different voices that come up in the mind, and one you really have to watch out for is the one that says, “It doesn’t matter what you do. Go ahead and act on your impulse.” Well, conviction is there to remind you that not all impulses are good and that … 
  15. Training in Commitment & Reflection
     … Or you can just tell yourself, “The thoughts can go on, but I’m not going to pay them any attention.” This is where it’s useful to think of the mind as being like a committee. You have lots of commentators commenting on what’s going on, what you should and shouldn’t be doing, and you’ve got a ferret out: “Which … 
  16. Book search result icon Meditation in Theory | Undaunted
     … Here it’s useful to see the mind as a committee, composed of many members with different ideas of how to find happiness. To find the allure, you have to learn to identify not only which member of the committee is urging you to go for the emotion, but also how and why. This step in the process requires a great deal of mental … 
  17. Why We Meditate
     … The why is also important, because it helps keep you with it, and to understand what you’re doing, to understand the point of all this, because you’re going to find different voices in the mind saying, “Why am I doing this? Why don’t I think about that, why don’t I think about this?” Not everybody in this committee of your … 
  18. Determined to Stay with the Breath
     … But we’re too interested in other things—or at least some members of the committee are interested in other things. They want to go off someplace else. They say, “Well that’s nice. You can stay with your breath a little bit. But then let’s do something else.” It’s like the person who gives up alcohol for a while and says … 
  19. Book search result icon A Healthy Sense of Self | Selves & Not-self
     … This is the kind of pride that can use a sense of shame, integrity, and all the other attitudes the Buddha is teaching here as means to negotiate with your less skillful selves, the less skillful members of the committee, and win them over to the path to true happiness. In the factors of the path, this comes under right effort: the ability to … 
  20. Book search result icon Q&A | Facing Aging, Illness, & Death
     … Ask the member of the committee that may have closed the door, “What are you afraid that I might see?” If the thought doesn’t come up for you again, then let it go for the time being. Rest assured that the opportunity to explore it again will come back again, and the next time you may be more ready for it. Q: There … 
  21. Book search result icon The Ego on the Path | Selves & Not-self
     … We also talked about some of the qualities the Buddha recommends for skillfully negotiating with the less skillful members of the mind’s committee and motivating them to do the right thing. Tonight’s talk approaches the same topics from a slightly different angle, looking at them in terms of what modern psychology has to say about mature ego functioning. Sometimes you hear that … 
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